Why Younger Men Love Older Women

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Ever wonder what attracts a younger man to an older woman? I asked my cub that very question and here's what he said.

I recently got an email from an anonymous cougar who wonders why younger men like older women. She’s had a relationship with a young man and described it as torture-- she was always worried he was comparing her to younger women.

Well, I've got news for you. He’s already compared you with girls his age. They came up silly, slutty, and boring. You came up intriguing, sexy, and exciting. He went with you. I too have often wondered about this, so I investigated further, interviewing my cub, Michael. Here’s how the conversation went:

Pamela: You’re 28. Why are you attracted to older women?

Michael: Women in their twenties are a) quite boring, b) quite unintelligent, c) only wanting to settle down into some kind of marriage situation, and d) really not bringing much to the table.

Pamela: Top three things that appeal to you about older women?

Michael: Sexually, they know specifically what they want. That helps a younger cub who is not necessarily inexperienced but may lack direction and confidence in terms of how to please a woman. A younger woman in her twenties probably doesn’t know herself or what she likes so wouldn’t be able to communicate it.

Pamela: Why is this sexual confidence so much more attractive?

Michael: It makes for a better, more fulfilling sexual experience.

Pamela: Anything else you like about older women?

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Michael: In theory, a cougar is more self-sufficient and they’ll pay for things. A girl in her twenties probably is a student or in transition. It’s not as much fun. You’re limited to what you can do socially and travel-wise.

Third thing I’d say that is appealing about older women is that they’re more sexual. They’re willing to explore more and know what buttons to push to challenge the cub to a higher level of performance.

Pamela: I think you already mentioned sex. It’s mostly about sex for you then?

Michael: It’s not just sexual. The summation of the appeal of cougars is they know exactly what they want and they communicate that.

Pamela: Any downside?

Michael: Gray hair. Kidding. I would say social awkwardness and different interests and friends. That makes it more difficult to share things. A cougar’s done a lot of things by her age. She has more specific wants and needs socially. You’re not going to get her to just hang out say.

Another big negative is if they have kids. Also, there’s a limited future in the sense that if you end up falling in love and there isn’t clear communication about expectations, there could be problems. It’s not the same outcome as it might be for an older man marrying a younger woman. It’s less socially accepted for an older woman to be with a younger man so it requires more effort and understanding on both parts.

Lastly, she’s probably out of touch with younger culture.

Pamela: Culture? [That’s a big word to describe sitting around watching TV.

Michael: And they definitely stereotype.

Pamela: Out of the mouths of babes, is all I can say.

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5 Reasons to Date A Cougar

Today we see a lot of young men are dating cougar and you may be wondering, this is why? Here's 7 Reasons to Date A Cougar, read on.......

1.She can hold her own. This ain’t her first rodeo. So when you take her out with your friends or coworkers, be it to a wedding or work event, you don’t have to worry she’ll perish without your constant attention. She’s been to enough of these things on her own to manage just fine while you’re talking to someone else. And, unlike the 23-year-old who gets tanked and throws shade at your ex, she’s got class. In fact, your ex will likely friend her on FB (like my old bf’s ex-wife did).

2.She can make you a better man. A friend of mine dated a 40-year-old woman when he was 22 and new to New York. “She picked the restaurants, paid for things, took me places. She had access to a world I didn’t, and she had done all the things I hadn’t done yet,” he said. Now he’s in his mid 40s, and married with a kid, and remembers that relationship as critical to making him the man he is now. “As a dude, I’m told that I’m supposed to date girls my own age and take care of them, pay for dinner, and so on. But for that period of time, the roles were reversed. She had the power. And it felt great—who doesn’t want to be taken care of? That’s when I understood what it was to be in that role, to be someone’s bitch, essentially. And I could appreciate it when it was my turn to take care of someone else.”

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3.Your sexual education will be perfected. By dating an older woman you get to explore your sexuality in a non-judgemental, open environment.  Don’t worry about technique, just bring your youth and an open mind and prepare to receive a PhD in life between the sheets. This is also another reason why girls your own age will want to date you afterwards.

4.You instantly become more attractive to the opposite sex. There is nothing that will irritate your female class mates more than if you date an older woman. A sort of  ‘what does she have that we don’t have’ or ‘what is it that attract her to you? Is there something we should know?’ thought process will bug your colleagues and make you seem by default more attractive. As in ‘how on earth did HE manage to pull that off?’

5.They take better care of their health. They're more likely to have given up bad habits such as heavy boozing, smoking, and staying out all night long. They're more likely to be eating healthy foods and working out regularly. Sure, part of the impulse is vanity — they want to stay looking good! But doing things that are good for oneself — rather than going along with the crowd of revelers — helps to fortify one's sense of self-respect, which men find attractive.

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8 Things women desperately want from men

Someone once said 'To generalize on women is dangerous. To specialize on them is infinitely worse'.

Well, what women want still remains the unanswered question across the globe. However, men needn't lose hope for all is not lost. There are still a good number of things that most women like. Here are a few from the long list which can perhaps help you make her fall head over heels in love with you. Take your pick to woo and sweep her off her feet!

Superman: Women love to be protected. So show in more ways than one to prove that you will be her saviour should your damsel land in distress! Women are always in awe of men who can step up in times of conflicts. Be sure you grab every opportunity that situation throws at you.

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Smell good: Deodorant Ads may be going overboard showing men being lured by women's perfume. But the other way is also true. Choose a deo that suits you. Especially if it's your first date, it's best not to try anything experimental. Know what smells best on you. Remember, what smelt heavenly on your friend might stink on your skin! For everything depends on your body odour. When you spray perfume on your body, what you smell is a combination of the deo spray and your body odour. Choose wise.

Surprises galore: Women love surprises be it chocolates, love notes, gifts or even a bouquet of flowers. Women don't mind them in any numbers. You are sure to score brownie points with this one!

Transparency: Honesty is still the best policy. Never lie to her if you are thinking of a long-term relationship. Never mind you will face some initial flak, but eventually you will win over her trust.

Perfect body: What with the celebrities being obsessed with getting a six pack or eight pack abs, girls too go ga ga over men with a well-toned body. Get into the habit of regular workout so you can make heads turn!

Dress well: Nothing turns off a women than a poorly-dressed man. Do a style-check, spot the trends in fashion, speak to a stylist to find out what looks best on you. Clothes maketh man literally!

Crowning glory: Nothing like a funky haircut! A good hairstyle can give you a different look altogether. What are you waiting for? Get that stunner look so you can impress that chick you have been eyeing.

Magic of your hands: You might have taken your girlfriend to the hottest restaurants in town, yet she will not mind if you can cook one of her favourite dishes (or even plain instant noodles) when she's hungry. Such moments are never forgotten.

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There's a joke doing the rounds that 'A woman's mind is cleaner than a man's That's because she changes it more often'. However, there are some things that remain constant.

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15 Interesting Facts About . . ( Dating and Relationships )

1.The most common time for breakups is around three to five months.

2.On average, it takes between 12 to 14 dates before couples will trade house keys.

3.If a man can’t decide what to wear on a date, he might want to wear blue. Studies show that women are attracted to men in blue.

4.According to the U.S. census, there are 95.9 million unmarried people in the U.S. of which 47% are men and 53% are women.

5.Studies show that schools, colleges, coffee shops, and malls are all excellent places to flirt because people are more open to meeting others in these places. Poor locations are restaurants and movie theaters.

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6.Studies show that men are put off by groups of loud women. If a woman wants to get a date, she should break away from a loud group to give a man a chance to approach her.

7.Body language studies show that revealing areas of the body that aren’t usually on display (such as the inner wrist, the inside of the upper arm, ankles, feet, inside calf muscle, and the nape of the neck) has an immediate effect on a date and shows an instant liking.

8.If you want to create an instant link with a date, say his or her name at least twice in the conversation. This shows attentiveness and connectiveness.

9.When a man first approaches a woman, she will base 55% of her initial impression of him on his appearance and body language, 38% on his style of speaking, and 7% on what he actually says.

10.If a woman is interested in her date, she will often smile at his jokes, play with her hair, fidget with an object such as a glass, blush when he pays her a compliment, pout or pucker her mouth, stumble over words, or lean in towards him.

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11.Choosing exciting places for a first date increases the chances of the other person falling for you. There is a definitive link between danger and physical/romantic attraction.

12.If a woman offers to pay for everything, chances are she isn’t that into the date. There’s an unspoken understanding that a man paying for everything is a form of “copulatory gift,” which is almost universal in all animal species.

13.A woman can increase the likelihood of a man approaching her if she uncrosses her arms, makes subtle eye contact, and smiles.

14.Over 50% of all singles in America have not had a date in more than two years.

15.Five common signs a man may be cheating in a relationship are that he accuses his partner of cheating, he’s extremely vague, he seems to be compensating by acting extra nice for no reason, he’s always at work, and his partner's friends drop her hints.

How To Seek A Cougar Online

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It's a popular that younger man seek a cougar online! If you are interested in cougar dating but don’t know how to find a real cougar online.Cougarlure will help you. Maybe some guy would say,it’s not so difficult. You can sign up at a social website such as twitter or a FB and so on.Then find the target,send the messages. But at last,most guys find they never succeed in these sites. Why?

You should realize that a cougar hardly spend so much time in the social sites. If they want to seek a serious relationship they will sign up in some professional cougar dating sites.In general the cougar usually use these social sites to connect to their friends and family members. So the relationship is not their purpose.And you can’t ensure whether these older women are “cougar” . So don’t waste your time and energy in these sites.

Now,how to find a real cougar on these cougar dating sites? First of all,You must admit a truth " it never will rain roses“. It’s means you should pay for something that you want to get. Maybe you don’t agree with me,but this is the common phenomenon in this society. If you can’t choose the good cougar dating site,I will strongly recommend you a site www.cougarlure.com. It’s free to sign up. But i suggest you become a fee member. Because only in this way,can you own more information about  other members and send the messages. Second,choose a member. So this is the point of your dating. Search them by different ages and places. A real cougar will fall in her profile in detail if she want a serious relationship. So pay attention to her photos (not just one pic),interests,and requiring. Third,be sure this cougar is interested in you so much like you ,too. If you failed in a communication  with a cougar. Remember that,never give up unless you had done it countless times.  The chance is always waiting for you behind . Last,when you succeed,just do what you do in  social websites. Life is too short to worry about what others think. Like a cougar is like a queen. So long as you search them in heart,i believe you can find your true love.

The cougar is different to the younger girls. Good luck to all the younger guys looking for cougars.

Love Tips

Looking for some good love tips to spice up your relationship, or perhaps trying to come up with some and romantic ideas for Valentine's day?

Whatever it is your looking for, the blog site is here to help you find exactly the love life, romance . Read on..

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What makes romance so powerful and so necessary to our life?  Is it that romance is the language that only the heart knows best?

When we show the one we desire most that they are special to us, we are being romantic.  We can do this in so many different and unique ways. Any good relationship requires effort to keep it alive.  Your unique way of being romantic is your personal anchor to securing the heart of another. 

1.Distance makes the hearts grow fonder.

2.If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me.

3.A heart that loves is always young.

4.When the words "I love you" were said by you for the first time, my world blossoms.

5.Who travels for love finds a thousand miles not longer than one.

6.Take away love, and our earth is a tomb.

7.Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you.

8.Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of.

9.Love is a light that never dims.

10.Where there is great love, there are always miracles.

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Have a love's fun

A young man finds the woman of his dreams and asks her to marry him. He tells his mother he

wants her to meet his fiance, but he wants to make a bit of a game out of it. He says he’ll

bring the girl over with two other women and see if his mother can guess which is the one he

wants to marry. His mother agrees to the game.

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That night, he shows up at his mother’s house with three beautiful young ladies. They all sit

down on the couch, and everyone has a wonderful evening talking and getting to know each other.

At the end of the evening, the young man asks his mother, ‘OK, Mom, which one is the woman I

want to marry?’

Without any hesitation at all, his mother replies, ‘The one in the middle.’

The young man is astounded. ‘How in the world did you figure it out?’

'Easy,' she says. 'I don't like her.'

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True love on online

I have a friend who is falling in love by Internet. She honestly claims the sky is bluer. Life is happier than before. She became more and more beautiful  and looks like a cover girl. "I'm young again!" she shouts exuberantly. We sincerely congratulate her that she meet her love!

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In today's society, more and more people choice dating online, maybe you will doubt it,me too! But with the development of the society, dating is become more and more difficult. What should we do? Online dating is a good way to meet love. That can save time and energy, why not do it! I love online dating by my friend looking for her true love!

Top 5: Ways To Attract Sexy Women

Every guy wants a sexy woman. The problem is that sexy women get hit on all the time and have a ton of options. To succeed with these hot babes, you have to find a way to stand out from the crowd. Here are 5 ways to attract sexy women that will get you going in the right direction and help you make a big impact on the hottie you want.

SPACE

Give her space

If a woman says: "I need time to get to know myself" or "I need to find myself" or any variation of this common theme, it usually means you were acting like a Wuss, being clingy and generally not a challenge anymore. If you become too predictable, too involved, too needy, too Wuss-ish, and too "head over heels" too early in the relationship, it will drive a woman away. Sexy women have guys chasing them far more than the average or below-average women. You need to do something different, while at the same time being attractive. Probably the best thing you can do when you finally meet a really great girl is call her half as much as you normally would, and give her twice the space. Think about it.

Stop chasing

I can remember when I used to call women too often, and if they didn't show up, I'd get upset and try to set up another date with them, etc. Of course, they'd usually play hard to get, and wind up thinking that I was a Wussy because I just accepted their flaky behavior. Well, after I stopped calling back women who flaked and basically stopped chasing women, I had the strangest thing happen; I had women call me -- sometimes weeks later. When a woman flakes, don’t worry about it. Just move on. She'll probably start flirting with you again when the timing’s right.

DATING

Be a leader

Sexy women aren't attracted to Wussies. So how could you characterize a Wuss? A Wussy is a guy who is weak, indecisive and insecure. A Wussy isn't in control, and he doesn't make decisions. Women feel attraction for men who demonstrate the qualities of a leader. How could you characterize a leader? A leader is a man who is in control of the situation, and who makes decisions and follows through on them without needing approval from others. Be a leader -- sexy women will love you for it.

Pass the sexy-woman test

Most guys miss the point entirely when a woman starts testing them. Instead of turning up the volume and hitting the ball right back over the net twice as fast, most guys just crumble and lose all the energy, sexual tension and chemistry that was in the situation. When a woman throws down the challenge, or starts to test you, instead of responding by saying: "OK, whatever you want," you need to create even more tension, turn it up and understand how to amplify the sexual tension and attraction in the situation. If you don’t understand tests, you'll just misinterpret everything that happens and miss all your opportunities.


Tease her

Sexy women will never admit it, but they love it when you tease and bust on them like there’s no tomorrow. Why? Because you're activating powerful sexual drives and female emotions that most men will never trigger inside of her -- and she'll be grateful to you for it. Even though an outsider might look at an evening that you spend with her and say: "He didn't treat her very well; he was difficult, very challenging and not complimentary at all,” at the end of the evening the woman you're with will go home with a deep, profound feeling of inner satisfaction that she won't be able to describe. So take the time to learn.

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